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Custom - Fanfictions (Good Love Vs Bad Love)








Italian Below (Italiano sotto, il journal citato è in inglese)



And so, I decided to trasform this content, that was a journal, in a permanent feature of my page, because I still feel like talking about love. And about the correct way to write about love. As you probably know if you watch me, I use to write fanfictions, and maybe you also know that my ones are mostly about romance. Now, I found a really interesting text about a problem: there are many cases of fanfics describing romantically relationships that are in fact unhealthy, and this may affect the idea of love (and friendship, or family, and so on) of those who read. Because many are young, but even if the young ones were not many, ever for a single person, the damage would be too great to ignore it. Here you have the journal:

Writing Healthy Relationships in FanfictionA lot of people have been posting writing tips for newer writers or for people who just want to improve, and while I have a lot of tips, I'm starting with what I think is the most important rule of all of fanfiction. More important than characters development, more important than style or plot:
Write romantic, healthy relationships. 
My piece of advice to writers new and old is look up healthy vs. abusive relationships and know the differences. I've lost count of how many times I've started reading a fic and the relationship will reek of abusive, unhealthy traits and it's played romantically. Just stop. Please. I'm not saying you can't write unhealthy relationships. By all means, go ahead. But don't romanticize it. It's abuse and shouldn't be glorified. That's the whole point I wrote A Disquieting Metamorphosis, to point out how these unhealthy, abusive relationships are glorified in fanfiction, particularly the xreader community. Have I roma


It was written by :iconamaranthprincess21:, a lovely and caring girl who writes fanfictions.
I totally suscribe to her point of view: who said that romance must be stained by violence, or more sublte ways of abuse, to be sexy and romantic? This isn't just false, it's also very dangerous. Stories of healthy relatioships may be very romantic, funny and sexy. But ... maybe they are a bit harder to write! I mean, if the only thing you want are views, maybe a false-romantic abuse story will easily give you more views, while writing about good relationships in an interesting way requires experience of life and respect for your readers.
Of course, unhealthy relationships may (and maybe need) to be described, but one must be aware not to do it romantically! If something is unhealthy, the writer must remind his readers about this, otherwise someone might think it is just alright that way. Lack of respect toward someone is just this, lack of respect, and not "a complicated way of loving".


Please, remember (mainly the youngest ones): when it comes to real life, abuse is NEVER ROMANTIC. Love is delicate and sensitive, generous and caring, if love is love.
Good love and happy fanfictions to everyone!


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E così, ho deciso di trasformare quello che era un journal in una parte permanente della mia pagina, perché io ho ancora voglia di parlare d'amore. E del modo corretto di scrivere sull'amore. Come saprete se mi seguite, io scrivo fanfictions, e forse saprete anche che le mie sono soprattutto romantiche. Ora, ho trovato un testo molto interessante che parla di un problema: ci sono molti casi di fanfic che descrivono romanticamente relazioni che in effetti sono malate, e questo può compromettere l'idea dell'amore (e dell'amicizia, o della famiglia, ecc) di quelli che le leggeranno. Perché molti sono giovani, ma anche se non fossero molti, anche per una sola persona, il danno sarebbe troppo grande per ignorarlo. Il journal è quello citato qua sopra.
L'ha scritto :iconamaranthprincess21:, un'adorabile e premurosa ragazza autrice di fanfic.
Io condivido totalmente il suo punto di vista: chi ha detto che il romanticismo deve essere macchiato dalla violenza, o da forme più subdole di abuso, per essere sexy e romantico? Questo non è solo falso, è anche molto pericoloso. Le storie di relazioni sane possono essere molto romantiche, divertenti e sexy. Ma ... forse sono un po' più difficili da scrivere! Voglio dire, se l'unica cosa che volete è farvi notare, forse una storia finto-romantica di abuso vi farà notare più facilmente, mentre scrivere di buone relazioni in un modo interessante richiede più esperienza di vita e rispetto per i lettori.
Naturalmente, le relazioni non sane si possono descrivere (e forse è necessario), ma bisogna avere la consapevolezza di non farlo romanticamente! Se qualche cosa è malato, l'autore deve ricordarlo ai suoi lettori, altrimenti qualcuno potrebbe pensare che sia tutto a posto così. La mancanza di rispetto verso qualcuno è solo questo, mancanza di rispetto, non "una forma complicata d'amore".
Per favore, ricordatevelo (specialmente i più giovani): quando si tratta di vita reale, l'abuso non è MAI ROMANTICO. L'amore è delicato e sensibile, generoso e premuroso, se l'amore è amore.
Buon amore e felici fanfiction a tutti!


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Birthday: June 22 ...

Now, it finally happened: I'll have to stop thanking everybody for llamas or favs. Thank-you by KmyGraphic so much anyway, believe me, I appreciate, it's just a matter of time.


Alla fine, doveva accadere: non ce la faccio più a ringraziare tutti per i favoriti e i llama.
Thank You 5 by Sugaree-33 a tutti lo stesso, davvero è solo una questione di tempo.


Y por fin, va a pasar: tengo que dejar de agradecer por todos los favoritos y los llamas. Thank you by KmyGraphic a todo el mundo, de verdad, solamente es que no me da tiempo.




















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and this below is my link (all fanfictions are in Italian ...):
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Your sister in law talks about cooking. Her friend does croquet. Your niece is a young athlete and your nephew participates in regional swimming competitions. Your sister in law sings in a choir. She and her daughter were at a very nice theater show, yesterday. And you just don't say a word about the fanfictions you write and the fanarts you draw. You are too ashamed, a woman in her 40ies doesn't do such things. Your brothers in law know everything about A. S. Roma, the football (soccer) team, but they never read a manga in all their lives and never  will. You smile and shut up.

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rawrdoodles Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thanks so much for the favorite on Ponyo!  :)
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portrait-perso Featured By Owner 4 days ago   Digital Artist
Thanks for the fav' :)
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seresere Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Grazie mille per il tuo apprezzamento +fav +fav +fav +fav :aww:
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gaspRr Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2016  Student Digital Artist
thanks for watchingSAAAAANNNNSSS DAAAAANNCEEE! 
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Wolf-wizzu Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2016   Digital Artist
I see you viewed my page. 
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SelkisFritz Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yellow Rose in teardrop crystal vase dewless :) (Smile) 
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ianwh Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
Rubina thanks for spreading the word it's so important :love: 
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SelkisFritz Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ti ringrazio per tutti i +fav +fav +fav +fav :happybounce: :happybounce: :happybounce: Love 
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motherearth01 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2016  Professional Digital Artist
Thank you very much for :+fav:I got my work.
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Kristherion Featured By Owner Sep 6, 2016  Professional Digital Artist
Muchas gracias por el watch, Ruby! :D
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SimoneFiani Featured By Owner Sep 5, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Grazie mille Rubina per il fav a Freddie Mercury!!! :thanks: Sono contento che ti piaccia, poi mi sembra tu sia una fan (come me), quindi il tuo apprezzamento vale doppio! :D
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PickleR12 Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2016  Student General Artist
Thank you for the favorite on my journey, it means a lot to me!
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rilargo Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2016  Professional General Artist
Thank you for the fav!:happybounce: 
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Kika777 Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2016
Grazie per il tuo sostegno, i fav e i commenti   Bounce 
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vafiehya Featured By Owner Aug 30, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist

   Thank you for the fave! by vafiehya  Brilliant butterfly by vafiehya  
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Pumkin-Portfolio Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2016
Hey, I hope everything is okay with you. The news about the earthquakes in Italy have made me worries ;___;
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SimoneFiani Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Grazie mille Rubina per il fav a Miriam Makeba e per le generose parole!!! :thanks: Sono contento che ti piaccia! :D
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Sergiba Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016
Grazie per il fav! :LongStemRose: 
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Maria-Schreuders Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
Thank you for faving my creation +fav Heart 
Have a beautiful Sunday
Honey Bear by Maria-Schreuders
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C-a-s-s-a-n-d-r-a-h Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you for the favorite +fav 
Have a nice day ! = )
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